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I Wish I Had Heard This Advice on Finding My Life’s Path Years Ago
If I would have heard Stephen King’s sage advice earlier, it would have changed how I felt about my own journey
For years, I beat myself up about not finding my “one thing” — my life’s path. So many books and articles I’ve read talk about how important it is to focus on that one magical thing, and really perfect it. But I’ve always struggled to find it — and I’ve continued to beat myself up for it.
I’ve worked different jobs in different sectors, I’ve made false starts into different career paths, and I always ended up feeling like I gave up too soon.
But then I heard some advice from Stephen King — the man who’s reliably put out bestselling books for decades.
King was giving a talk on creative writing to students at UMass Lowell. During the Q&A session a nervous student stepped up to the microphone in the audience and asked the award-winning author about how to develop as a writer.
The answer King gave was simple:
“You have to read a lot, and you have to write a lot…
That’s not surprising to hear. Of course you have to write and read a lot to be a writer. Those are the two things that a working writer does…
